Dear Jackson
I think after 4 years of dating my boyfriend I want to move on. Im
sick of everything hes put me through, and I can't trust him. He's my
first love, etc. so I'm not sure how to just leave. I've tried to
before but I love him so much I couldn't stay away and kept forgiving
him. Any advice how to move on so I can be happy?
A Female
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7 comments:
Girl if he is putting through that shit then get over yourself and leave him!
leave him..just let go if you cant stop forgiving him stop talking to him cut off all connections to him and get rid of things that remind you of him...let him go a guy isn't worth it if he's causing you to hurt like that...
Stay with him. Trust me, you never forget your first love and always want them back!
Just ask yourself this question, "Is what he's putting through worth my peace of mind?"
You have to prepare your heart to rid of him. He's not worth it if he's constantly putting you through stress and agony.
So how much has he put you through in the past four years? Ask yourself that and list each one down and if any are constantly happening over and over again and you've told him you don't like it, then wonder if he values you as much as you value him.
First loves are great and if you let him know that you want to leave because of his disrespect towards you, see if that changes his mind. If it doesn't then it's time to move on and keep him as a memory of yours. Finding the right one means they'll respect you and understand when you don't like something.
As my Grandmother use to say and I truly believe, "It's better to be alone and happy then with someone and be completely miserable".
Good luck and put yourself first for a change.
Definetly think about it, but really if he's being a complete jerk leave him and find someone much better, you deserve it!!
cheat on him. Put him through what he's put you through, then, leave him, or you can just do the second part. Either way LEAVE THE BASTARD!
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