This week's new letter:
dear jackson,
ok the question i need to know is should i stay or leave? I have been
with this guy for 6 and a half years and have three kids with him. Im
only 21 and i want to get married and i feel like im wasting my time.
He always tells me he does not want to get married but he is the
father of my kids and i love him. I just need to hear from other
people if im trying to make something work thats not going to. Also he
has cheated three times that i know of, but swears he wont do it again
and he loves me.
anonymous
And here's last week's letter (forgot to post til now... whoopsies!):
Dear Jackson.
This is not a joke email. I'm 24 and just discovered that the girl
I've been dating for the past three years is actually my second
cousin. I'm not close with any family so have been researching my
ancestry. When I came across this, I felt incredibly ill. Should I
tell her??? We are truly in love and have been planning our future
together but is it now taboo??? I'm sure nobody has been in my
position but I need advice! Thanks!
Bradley
OK! There's 2 letters! Now leave some advice!!! Thank you!
4 comments:
Comment for Anonymous:
if u love the guy stay with him if you dont then dont stay with him. good luck!
Listen girl friend. If he's cheated on you then you need to drop his butt on the side of the rode. a beautiful lady like you does not deserve someone like that. and when he tells you he loves you look him right in the eyes and ask him this "Do you really mean that?" and just watch his reaction... if its bad leave him and take the kids but if its a good one stay with him. but still you don't deserve to be treated like that
Sincerely,
Rose
Once a cheater always a cheater. Don't fall for the "I'll never do it again". For all you know he could be doing it again right under your nose. There is other Love out there and you probably deserve better. Your kids do not need to be around that type of guy any way. If you have boys they will learn that it's okay to cheat because daddy did it and still got to be with his girlfriend. And if you have a girls then they will grow up worried that all men will be like that. My "father" did it to my mom and she dumped his ass. But I'm always freaking out about guys cheating on me even when I have no reason to!
I think that you should stay with her if you love her even tho she is your second cousin. And no you are not the only one it has happened to. My husband and I had been dating for a while when I discovered that we are third cousins. I was pretty weirded out at first but I decided that I loved him enough it didn't matter and we have been happily married for four years and counting. Just do what your heart tells you. Good luck!
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