Dear Jackson,
I just discovered that my boyfriend isn't who he said he was. He told
me he's 24 and he's actually 32. He told me he's an aspiring actor
and that he's signed to be in a movie with Ashton Kutcher this winter,
and he's actually a mailman. He told me he's Italian and he's
actually Portuguese. We've been dating for over a year so this all
comes as such a huge shock to me. He even told me the wrong name. I
thought his name was Antonio and it's actually Kevin.
What should I do? It's not like I just started dating him a month
ago. It's been for 14 months. I trust him and love him. We were
planning on moving in together and that's why he came clean. I need
advice!!! I need answers!!!
Lied-To-Lisa
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13 comments:
if he can lie about stuff like that how can you trust him not to lie aain about other things....
Why in the world would you stay with him!! I don't care long you've been together. He obviously lied to you for a reason. And it obviously doesn't bother him to lie to you! Trust and honesty are a key part of a relationship...u can NOT trust him because he is NOT honest! If you stay with him it just a matter of time till you find out other things he's lied about. Don't wait for things to get worse! You deserve better than that!
He told me he's an aspiring actor
and that he's signed to be in a movie with Ashton Kutcher this winter,
and he's actually a mailman.
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how can you acctually believe that he did that! If my bf told me that i would be like show me proof. if he couldn't show me then i would be on his case. im sorry but right there was when i was like he lies. anyone who says that just wants attention just like my ex bf adam.. he said that he was a prince of england that his family didnt wanna be part of it and moved. i would say just leave him. If he lied about that he could lie about being with only u only loving u. those are major lies. i have never lied to my bf. there are people who are out there who dont lie. i know cause i am with one. good luck with ur relationship.
Have you lost your mind???!!!! You still trust him after he lied to YOU FOR 14 MONTHS!! If he can lie to you for that long about little things like his NAME then he won't hestitate to lie to you about the big things in a relationship...and trust me there will be big things once you move in with one another. Good luck and I hope you kick this liar/loser to the curb!
Throw his ass to the curb, a good relationship is built on trust not lies. There are better guys out there for you if you give them a chance.
i think you should just get that liar out of your life sooner rather than later so it dosent come back and hurt you in the future.
WOW, thats all i got to say is WOW! what a jerk, he probably has more secrets that you don't know about. so i say break up with him..................he's no good for you. trust me!!!!!!
Break up with him. He's a jerk.
omg he is a fricken jerk this has happened to meh b4 my ex told meh that i was the first one he kissed the he sed he loved meh and cheated on meh the next day i think u should just dump his ass bc that is bull shit i mean really y wuld u lie about ur name WOW WAT A EFFFING JERK!!!!!
Are you kiddin' me? Dump the ass! That's not just ONE lie, that's a WHOLE relationship of lies. How do you know he is really Kevin? Have you seen his license? You don't need any more problems.
Signed-Lisa 2
Wow.... dump him!!!
Not only should you end the relationship, you should consider a trip to the doctor if you have been intimate with him at all. If he intentionally fabricated his entire life, God only knows what else you may discover about him. You could have any number of diseases. Seriously. Go to the doctor.
Lisa, leave him. I'm sorry but you owe him nothing after the lies and now he's proven he can never be trusted.
These weren't small lies, these were HUGE!
Good luck to you if you do decide to stay and don't be shocked if he is married or has another family.
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